With the increasing number of trust issue in nowadays, people seems are not trusty as before. In the spirit of discretion, every one become a cautious person, everything they do, they are not only discreet but careful as well. At the same time, this behavior somehow affects couples, now the conjugal secret accounts have become a hot topic, and different people have different opinions on this problem.
隨著現(xiàn)在信任問(wèn)題的不斷增加,人們看起來(lái)不像以前那樣可信了。為了謹(jǐn)慎起見(jiàn),每個(gè)人都變成了小心謹(jǐn)慎的人,他們不僅謹(jǐn)慎,也小心翼翼的。與此同時(shí),這種行為不知怎么地也影響了夫妻,現(xiàn)在夫妻之間的秘密賬戶(hù)成了熱點(diǎn),不同的人對(duì)這個(gè)問(wèn)題有不同的看法。
People who are against with the conjugal secret accounts hold the opinion that husband and wife should be honest to each other. Once female and male are get marry, they are supposed to open heart to each other, share everything together, including the money they earned.,and hide no secret from each other. Hence, a conjugal secret account is not acceptable. This is a sign of disloyalty.
反對(duì)夫妻秘密賬戶(hù)的人認(rèn)為夫妻應(yīng)當(dāng)對(duì)對(duì)方坦誠(chéng)。一旦女人和男人結(jié)婚,他們就應(yīng)當(dāng)對(duì)對(duì)方敞開(kāi)心扉,一起分享所有東西,包括他們賺到的錢(qián),而且也不能有秘密瞞著對(duì)方。因此,夫妻秘密賬戶(hù)是無(wú)法接受的。這是不忠的表現(xiàn)。
While some people hold the opposite views that couples should save a private room for each other. Getting married doesn’t mean that you have to expose everything to your soul mate; sometimes a little secret will makes relationship delightful. A conjugal secret account is not a big deal since everyone has the desire to buy something that their husband or wife doesn’t agree to, as long as they earn the money for the secret accounts by themselves.
然而有些人持相反的觀點(diǎn),他們認(rèn)為夫妻間要為對(duì)方留點(diǎn)私人空間。結(jié)婚不意味著你要對(duì)你的靈魂伴侶暴露所有東西。有時(shí)候一些小秘密會(huì)讓夫妻關(guān)系變得令人愉快。夫妻秘密賬戶(hù)并不是什么大事,因?yàn)槊總€(gè)人都有他們想買(mǎi)的而且他們丈夫或妻子不同意買(mǎi)的東西。只要他們秘密賬戶(hù)的錢(qián)是自己賺的就成了。
Weighing up these two arguments into account, I prefer the latter one. You don’t have to show everything to your soul mate and a conjugal secret accounts are acceptable. Cheating is disloyalty, but not a secret account.
權(quán)衡這兩種觀點(diǎn),我支持后者。你不用什么都讓你的靈魂伴侶知道,夫妻秘密賬戶(hù)是可接受的。出軌才是不忠,秘密賬戶(hù)不是。
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