Adolescent is the very important time for one life. During that time, a person’s characteristic is being cultivated. The parents play the main roles in teenager’s time, what they say and do will have great effect on their children, even decide the kids’ future. So the parents need to pay attention to the right education.
青少年時(shí)期對(duì)于一個(gè)人的一生來講是很重要的。在那個(gè)時(shí)期,一個(gè)人的性格會(huì)養(yǎng)成。父母在青少年時(shí)期扮演著重要的角色,他們所說和所講的會(huì)對(duì)他們的孩子有很大的影響,甚至決定了孩子的將來。因此父母需要注重正確的教育。
First, the parents should treat their children as the grow-ups. In the parents’ eyes, no matter what how old their children are, they always treat them as the babies, so they will be easily to make every decision for the kids. In the long time, the children will be rebellious and don’t want to talk to their parents, because they think there is nothing in common between them.
第一,父母應(yīng)該把他們的孩子當(dāng)做成人來看待。在父母的眼里,無論他們的孩子多大,他們總是把孩子當(dāng)做孩子來看待,所以他們會(huì)很容易為他們做所有的決定。長(zhǎng)期下來,孩子會(huì)很叛逆,不想要和他們的父母交談,因?yàn)樗麄冇X得和父母之間沒有共同的話題。
Second, the parents should encourage their children. As the parents always treat their children as the babies, so they will deny their children’s ideas all the time. It is wrong to do it, the parents should not deny them, they should encourage their children and lead them to have their own thinking. It is better to let the children realize their faults by themselves.
第二,父母應(yīng)該鼓勵(lì)孩子。由于父母總是把他們的兒女當(dāng)做孩子,因此他們總是會(huì)否定兒女的想法。這樣做是錯(cuò)誤的,父母不應(yīng)該否定他們,應(yīng)該鼓勵(lì)孩子,引導(dǎo)他們有自己的思考。最好讓孩子自己意識(shí)到錯(cuò)誤。
Teenager’s education is of great importance, the parents should do it in the right way.
青少年的教育很重要,父母應(yīng)該要找到正確的方式。